Showing posts with label The Daily Grind. Show all posts
Showing posts with label The Daily Grind. Show all posts

Monday, June 13, 2011

Kids and Obesity...

When should we start teaching our children about calories and exercising?

Do we wait until they are already overweight?

Do we wait until they go to school and eat school lunches?

Should we start at home when they are too young to really understand what a calorie is?

These have been weighing on my mind lately.

My Momma and Dad never worried about being overweight.  Neither of them were overweight when we were growing up.  They ate what they wanted and so did me and my brother.  I started packing on the pounds during adolescence and remember Momma trying to help us lose weight by putting everyone on the Hilton Head Diet when I was 14.  When I was 16, I suffered from gallstones and had my gall bladder removed.  It was sort of downhill from there.  Momma and I would do Jazzercise at the local park and we loved it.  She tried to keep me active, but it wasn't enough.  I briefly recall learning about calories in the 9th grade.  I think it was a one day assignment and even then I didn't really understand them.

Now I understand the importance of calorie counting and exercising.  

Sissy has started "counting calories" too.  But in her innocent 5 year old way.  She can't read and doesn't understand numbers.  I've been encouraging my children to eat more fruit and vegetables.  It's really easy.  We just don't buy junk.  I rarely buy chocolate and ice cream.  Their treats consists of yogurt, popsicles and fruit snacks.  I don't keep track of their calories.  They eat what I eat and most every day, they eat way more!  I try to keep them active by going to the park and having them run in circles through our living room and kitchen.  They think it's fun.  I'm not going to tell them any different.  Sissy likes to work out with Jillian but usually quits about 5 minutes in and watches me.  More like, critiques me and lets me know what I'm doing wrong!

My kids watch PBS every day.  Even Curious George encourages good eating habits...do you want the sugary sweet or do you want the blueberries?  George goes for the blueberries.  Kids follow suit.  They ask for the blueberries because that's what George eats.

I want to make sure my kids have all the knowledge to avoid battling weight issues.  I think they will be better for it.  Do I worry they might develop an eating disorder?  It has crossed my mind.  That's why I'm blogging about it.  But I also worry about obesity.  And that's just as deadly as the opposite, right?  Knowing how to eat proper nutrition is invaluable.  I hope my kids will be alright.

I know this is a touchy matter and may be on your hearts as well.  I welcome your comments.

 

Friday, December 10, 2010

Tackling My Frosty Freezer


UGH!  I've been saying I was going to tackle our deep freezer since at least April.

Well Thursday the deed was done.  

The kids and I went grocery shopping and picked up some frozen veggies.  I crammed them into the door shelves only to have the door not close all of the way. 

That's when I decided enough was enough.  At first, I got the blow dryer and started melting some of the ice from the front of the shelf.  It was about 3" thick, just on the front of the metal shelf!  After about 5 minutes, I had Sissy bring me a towel since the water was dripping onto the stuff on the lower shelf.  And Boo-Boo brought me a fork to "pick" my way through the ice.  It was ridiculous!  Finally I found a hammer and banged my way through the ice.  I started on the top shelf and worked my way down.  I could not get all of the ice off the top metal thing.  I'm not sure what that's called, but my hands were killing me, especially my right hand, and I was done banging away at it. 

I used my broom and plastic dust pan to scoop up the ice chunks and put them into plastic garbage bags.  I filled one completely and the other about 2/3 full.  I knew there was a lot of ice in there, but I had no idea there was
that much! 

I poured it out on the driveway and the kids played in it like it was snow.  So funny!

Now my freezer looks fabulous!  It feels really good to have it all cleaned out...FINALLY!

...and now I will ENJOY it.  :)

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Tuesday, November 9, 2010

The Daily Grind: Cleaning the Dishwasher

Have you ever looked, and I mean really looked, inside your dishwasher?

I did.

Last week.

It was totally disgusting!

I usually wipe down the edges a couple of times a week and spray the front with some window cleaner to wipe off the fingerprints and hand smudges left from my little ones.

Just so you know, I'm not talking about this kind of maintenance.

My dishwasher wasn't cleaning anything on the top rack.  This is what made me look inside.  There is a spray arm connected to the top rack and will spin and spray water to get everything clean.  It hasn't been working.  So I went online to see what I need to do in order to clean and maintain the dishwasher, thinking there might be something stuck in a hole or something.  After taking out the bottom rack, I looked up and saw the entire "roof" of the dishwasher covered in mildewy mold.  
GROSS!  

I don't know how long it's been like that, I mean, who looks up there anyway?  I never had before now!  (how many of you have ran from the computer to check out your dishwasher? please let me know if yours was like mine or if mine was just a fluke!)

Anyway, so I immediately got my white vinegar and starting cleaning everything in the dishwasher.  I don't even want to tell you what the rag looked like, but it was nasty!  But now the dishwasher is clean.  

Thankfully, I found another site that stated there probably wasn't enough water pressure reaching the instrument to make the spray arm move and spray.  

By the way, did you know you shouldn't put liquid dishwashing detergent in the dishwasher?  Apparently the bubbles interfere with water pressure too.  Not that I've done that or anything!
My husband got home and adjusted the regulator under the house and so far so good.  We still can't run the washing machine simultaneously with the dishwasher, but we're not interested in buying a booster pump for $1000.  So I'm completely okay with not washing clothes while dishes are going.

As long as I don't have dirty dishes coming out of the dishwasher, I'm good!

Enjoy!

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Thursday, October 14, 2010

The Daily Grind: "NO!"

I feel like that's all I hear lately from my 2 year old son.  He has truly reached his "terrible two" stage.  My patience is waning.   

"Do you want some cereal for breakfast?"

"NO!"

"Do you want a banana?"

"NO!"

"Would you like to eat a pancake?"

"NO!"

I give up!  Rarely do we hear "yes" or "uh-huh".  I know this is a phase.  He wants to exert his independence.  Make decisions for himself.  I get that.  But I don't get the "NO!" for everything.

Well, not everything.  I'll get a "uh-huh" for "sicles" (popsicles), "monkey" (Curious George) and "bo-bo" (apples). 

So to counteract the no-ing.  I've been trying to find ways around negative reactions from myself.

When it's time for bed and they want to stay up, I've been trying the approach "we'll get up bright and early in the morning, but right now we really need to get some sleep". 

My automatic reaction is to say no.  Hence, the problem in the first place.  

We recently studied an article about having gracious speech with our fellow man, our family, our congregation.  I personally made a decision to make a conscious effort to pray every morning to use gracious speech when speaking to my children.  It works!  God wants us to succeed in having a happy family life.  Being able to communicate nicely to one another is important for success.  When the kids are screaming at each other because one took the other's toy, I send them to time-out to calm down.  Then when time-out is over, they come to me and we talk about what transpired.  Then we pray.  I try to use words both a 4 year old and a 2 year old can understand, knowing Jehovah will hear our earnest prayer and give us the needed help to succeed. 
Anyone else have suggestions on how to avoid telling your children "NO"?

Thursday, September 16, 2010

The Daily Grind: Biting...


Biting.  I know.  I can't believe it myself.  It started a few weeks ago actually.  I was looking up something on the computer when I heard the most horrific catterwalling from the living room.  Sissy came running into where I was sitting, barely able to breathe and scream at the same time.  She was rubbing her arm and screamed "He!!  Bit!!  Me!!"  I looked at her arm and just about came unglued.  There on her arm was the tell-tale teeth marks with a horrible purple and red bruise rising to the surface of her skin.  I immediately came into the living and told Boo-Boo that "we do not bite anything but food" and then I did what I thought I'd never do and I bit him on the arm in the same place he bit his sister.  She was crying, he was crying and I was crying.  

How did this happen?  When did biting back become discipline?  I immediately sent my husband a text telling him what happened.  Then I called my friend Tara.  Of whom I almost always ask parenting questions.  This makes sense to me since we are pretty much long-long sisters and parent very similarly.  Her children are a few years older than mine, so of course in my mind, she's an expert.  (Thanks Tara!)

The conversation went pretty much like this:

"hey, what's going on?  hope you're okay?"

"we're fine. just on the computer, catching up on Facebook."

"you're stalking again?"  we both laugh.

"I have a problem..."

"okay? what?"

"Boo-Boo bit Sissy and I bit Boo-Boo.  Now I feel horrible.  Have you dealt with this too?"

"yes...I did the same thing..."

We talked some and I came to the realization this is something most parents do.  I asked Momma about it and she said neither my brother nor I were "biters" so she never really had to deal with it.  However, my cousin bit me and she said my aunt would bite him back.  This was 30+ years ago.  

Again, I ask, when did this become a good idea?  

I rationalized:  Boo-Boo needed to understand the pain he inflicted on his sister.  I didn't want to wait until later when my husband got home from work.  If I did that, then Boo-Boo wouldn't understand what I was talking about.  Remember, he's 2 years old.  He's the youngest and he is trying very hard to speak clearly.  We don't understand a lot of what he says and I think he gets very irritated when he can't communicate his feelings or problems.  I tried explaining to Boo-Boo that it's not okay to bite.  We use our teeth to eat food.  We do not use our teeth to hurt others.  The root of the problem?  There was a toy they both wanted and Sissy had taken it from Boo-Boo.  He's reaction?  To bite her.  

Later I talked to Sissy and explained to her that while it's not okay for Boo-Boo to bite her.  It's also not okay for her to take things from her brother.  She's 4 years old and she understands what it's like when people take things from her when she wants to play with them.  She understood, but they are brother and sister and fight like cats and dogs over silly things.  I know it will get better.  I'm just waiting for the day, it might be 20 years from now, but it will come.  

In the mean time, has anyone else had to deal with biting children?  I'm curious to know how you handled it and what advice you have to offer.

By the way, the biting back didn't work for me.  He bit her again today...

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Top Ten Tuesday: 10 Must Haves for Sick Kiddos

Last week, my son contracted the terrible stomach bug.  I've never really had to deal with vomiting before so it was a huge eye-opener and learning experience.
Top Ten {Tuesday}

Oh Amanda hosts Top Ten Tuesday each week.  Here's my list of:


10 Must Haves for Sick Kiddos
1.  Hand washing and hand sanitizer.  I know some people aren't into the hand sanitizer but I like to have it on hand for these kinds of germs.  We don't use it every day, only when we're dealing with sickness.  I prefer to have the kids (and myself included!) wash hands with warm soapy water and then sanitize.  
2.  Bleach, vinegar, tea tree oil or other disinfectant.  I'm not against the use of bleach.  Some of the bloggers I follow have decided to use tea tree oil as a disinfectant, I think that's wonderful for them.  But bleach works fine for me.  I used vinegar to clean up the aftermath on the hardwood floors since bleach is not recommended.  I also sprayed Lysol on all the door handles, toilet flushing handles, bathroom fixtures and any other low reaching knob my little one might have reached for, just as a precautionary measure.
3.  Laundry detergent, bleach or vinegar.  I needed to wash a huge stuffed animal, bedding and blankets, so making sure I had detergent was a must.  I normally stockpile these when they are on sale for $.99-$1.50.  Unfortunately, I ran out of bleach last week and haven't been to the grocery store.  However, I did have vinegar and splashed about a cup into the wash with the detergent.
4.  Bananas.  Bananas are the first of the "B.R.A.T." diet recommended by my mother-in-law.  I'd never heard of this until I married my husband.  But we use when we have stomach issues.

5.  Rice.  Rice is next in the "B.R.A.T." diet.  Make sure it's plain without salt.  Very easy to digest.

6.  Applesauce.  Applesauce is after that.  Thankfully we had a little leftover and my son was anxious to eat a little something the second day of the bug.  It's very soothing on a "rumbly tumbly" (as Pooh would say).

7.  Toast.  Toast is the last part of the diet.  Toasted bread without butter or jelly, just plain.  
8.  Popsicles/Pedialyte.  Having popsicles in the freezer and Pedialyte in the pantry are definite must-haves when treating a stomach virus.  I didn't have either and thankfully my Momma came to the rescue and brought over two CVS brand Pedialyte (it was on sale too!). 

9.  Free Schedule.  Clear your schedule, no work, no ministry, no school.  They need our undivided attention.  Snuggling seems to make them feel all better anyway :)
10.  Patience.  Dealing with sickness can be stressful, especially if you have more than one child in the household.  I always fear the sickness will travel among everyone and then re-infect the first child a second time.  Thankfully, with all the precautionary measures I took, no one else got the stomach virus.  Patiently caring for the needs of the sickie will result in less crying, more hugs and a quick recovery.

This is how we deal with sickness and it works for us.  

How about you?  Do you have a tried and true method of treating the sickies in your home? 

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

In the Kitchen: Egg Shell Retrieval


Y'all know how much I love to bake and how much we eat Breakfast for Dinner.  

Well, I have to tell you a little secret:  every week I'm fishing out a small piece of egg shell from something, whether it was scrambled eggs or zucchini bread.  I was at work just this morning and dropped half of an egg shell into the batter of blueberry muffins, thankfully retrieval has gotten easier since I've learned this easy tip.  

Don't use your finger to "fish" out the tiny piece of egg shell.  For one thing, it will take you a good 10 minutes to finally get a hold of it.

Instead, using a larger piece of egg shell, dip it in and retrieve that pesky little shell.  It works every time and without much fuss.

Of course, if you never have this problem, don't worry, it will happen one day, and you'll be glad you read about how to solve it.

Enjoy!

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

"Potty Training"


I've already written about our potty training details before.  This time around with my son, I'm using a similar approach.  I have to admit I feel a little more prepared for the long-haul.  I'm not expecting him to be potty trained overnight (although I have a friend who was successful in 3 Day Potty Training...go Lilah!).  This time I think I'm prepared for a few set-backs.  

So far, we've been using the potty before bath time.  He has this concept down pat.  However, he isn't being rewarded like my daughter was.  I think I'm going to save those for the "hardcore potty training sessions".  I've heard of a couple of things to help boys use the potty.  

For example:
  • Float a Cheerio on the surface of the toilet water and let him "aim" for the Cheerio.  
  • Have him go potty when daddy goes potty.  
  • When outside playing, let him go behind bushes and trees.  
I personally have not implemented these techniques but figured I'd keep an open-mind.  I learned a long time ago to never say "never".  I hope this works for me, what about you?   

Do you have any tried-and-true methods for potty training little boys?

Any and all suggestions are welcome :)

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

The Daily Grind: Don't Cry Over Spilled Milk....LITERALLY!


If you are a mommy, then you can sympathize with me (or at least I hope you can!)  Have you ever had days when you thought you were at your wits end and if one more mishap occurred, you'd lose your mind?  

First of all, let me start by saying Hunter is at the "learning stage" of pouring things out onto the floor and table.  Including but not limited to bodily functions and other liquids.  Okay, so now let me begin.  I figured it was time I share what he's been doing over the past couple of weeks.

Friday 3/26 - Several messy diapers that ended up with said "mess" runny out of the diaper, down his legs and all over the floor.  The best part?  I just finished mopping the floor, only to re-mop and disinfect.  Not that it was his fault his tummy was upset, but I just finished mopping the floor!

Monday 3/30 - He found a cup of pink lemonade on the table and poured it out.  It went down the crack between the tables leaves and poured all over the floor, yucky sticky mess.

Wednesday 4/1 - I was loading the washing machine (I know can you believe it? especially with my aversion to laundry...) when I hear a crash in the kitchen.  Walking around the corner I see him playing in at least half a dozen egg yolks.  He apparently is tall enough to reach the things I have on the counter.  After cleaning him up and sending him to the living room to sit while I cleaned up the egg mess, Haylei hollers at me that "Hunter made another mess".  I look in at the living room to see a big pool of strawberry milk and an empty cup in his hand.  He found her drink and decided it was better on the floor than in the cup.  So while I was cleaning up that mess, I was almost in tears.  It was the 5:00 hour and that's when my nerves are pretty much shot for the day.  Then I realized that I was actually about to cry over spilled milk and then I started laughing...you know the crazy, hysterical laugh, yep.  

Tuesday 4/6 - Today - Haylei had started to run some bath water while I wiped down the kitchen counters.  Next thing I hear a desperate cry of  "Mommy I need some help"...I walk in the bathroom to see her mopping up about 2 gallons of water on the floor with a small hand towel.  Hunter had taken the white removable potty tray and decided it looked like the perfect scoop to dip into the toilet and pour onto the floor.  After he got out of the bathtub, he made his way to the kitchen (while I was getting my daughter out of the tub and dried off) and he found her juice cup from supper.  He decided he needed another bath, only this time it was with the sticky juice.  My day ended with me and Hunter running low grade fevers and Haylei completely exhausted.  I'm guessing we are suffering from the pollen, but that remains to be seen.  

Hopefully we won't have too many more mishaps over the next weeks, but who am I kidding?  He won't be 2 years old until June and I'm sure we'll be nuts before it's over.  If you're at the park and hear a crazy lady laughing hysterically, it's probably me.  

Better to laugh than to cry...  

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"The Daily Grind" are posts referring to my career as wife, mother, bookkeeper, seamstress, chauffeur, teacher, baker & cook and whatever else life throws my way. (Proverbs 31)


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Tuesday, March 16, 2010

The Daily Grind: Manners

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"Yes, ma'am." 

"Thank you."

"Please..."

We started early on teaching our children manners.  We try to teach by example.  When we hand them something, we say "thank you".  I don't demand they say it.  I encourage them to say it.  Eventually they will get the idea and they in turn say "thank you".  

Haylei had started saying "Huh?" when I asked her a question or said something to her.  I don't repeat myself, but instead I ask, "Ma'am?"  Now she asks, "ma'am, what did you say?" 

The other day, we were in the car with my parents and my Momma had offered Haylei something to eat and she said, "No thank you"...it made me feel good to hear her be so polite and use her manners.  We're still working on other ways to be considerate and respectful.  She has big control issues, I'm sure this is related to her age.  At least that's what I'm hoping anyway.  

Hunter is still young and barely utters words.  He tries really hard and gets so frustrated if you don't understand him.  With that said, he can say "tank - oo".  He'll bring me an apple to peel for him and when he hands it to me, he says "tank - oo".  He might have it a little backwards, but he is trying to understand the idea behind manners and politeness.  His newest problem?  Hands down the back of his diaper!  YUCK!

Teaching our children to be polite early on by our example, works for us.  

How do you teach your children manners?

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"The Daily Grind" are posts referring to my career as wife, mother, bookkeeper, seamstress, chauffeur, teacher, baker & cook and whatever else life throws my way. (Proverbs 31)

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

The Daily Grind: Having a Routine

 photo source: DHDesign

Do you have a daily routine?  When I worked full-time for an industrial supplier, I worked in the credit and collections department.  Everyday I got up at the same time, got to work at the same time, ate lunch at the same time and returned home at the same time.  While at work I knew exactly what was expected and when things needed to be done.  When I became a stay-at-home mother four years ago, I really wanted to have a good schedule for my daughter.  After all, I was used to having a routine at my secular job.  

But they don't tell you that children set their own schedules and you can only guide them.  Well, the scriptures do remind us that children are like arrows that need to be carefully aimed (Psalm 127:4).  So I can't say I didn't have any warning.  I just thought it might be easier.  Boy was I wrong!  

Routines have pros and cons.  Starting my children on a routine early on, helped me know what was going on with them and what to expect.  When they were little babies and crying for no apparent reason, routine allowed me to know it was time to feed them, change them or put them down for a nap.  Having a routine, gave me a sense of control (because we all know I have control issues!)  It's not only good for me but it's also good for my kids.  They know what to expect.  They aren't left wondering when they are going to eat, when it's time to go to bed, when it's time for Bible study.  Children are happier knowing what comes next.  It gives them a sense of security and understanding.  Why do you think kids like to read the same book 100 times?  Or watch the same movie 50 times?  It builds their confidence and makes them feel secure.

But having a routine can have it's drawbacks.  Both of our children go to bed between 7-8:00 each night.  When we have worship services on Tuesday night at 7:30, my kids are exhausted and grouchy.  Our children sit with us during the service so we strive to keep them quiet and teach them to be patient and listen at an early age.  But when they are tired and just want their beds, no amount of "shhh-ing" will keep them quiet.  So I end up in the back room until Hunter falls asleep.  When we go out of town, Hunter has a hard time sleeping.  He LOVES his bed.  And when we are out of town, he sleeps in a pack-n-play.  Not the most comfortable thing, but I place his blankets and stuffed animal from home inside to give him a sense of security.  Nevertheless, around 1 a.m. he's crying and awake.  He doesn't want to sleep in that thing and he ends up in our small bed.  We are not co-sleepers in our family (I'll tell you about that another time, but feel free to share your experiences in the comments.) and I don't sleep when my kids are in the bed.  So I get up in the morning grouchy.  It's time like this, that make me second-guess our routine and schedule.  

In the end, I have to say having a routine works best for us.  While it's not as strict as when I worked outside the house, we do have a semblance of a daily routine.
  • Up and at 'em around 7:00-7:30.
  • Breakfast and check emails.
  • Homeschool for about an hour reviewing the appropriate subject for the day.
  • Snack time around 10:00.
  • "Storytime" and playtime
  • Lunch time around 12:00
  • Hunter gets a nap around 12:30-1:00 (he'll sleep for 3 hours)
  • Haylei and I have "quiet time" until 3:00 (I blog, read, have personal Bible study time)
  • Snack time around 3:00 and read a Bible story with the children 
  • When the weather is good, we all go outside to play for a couple of hours
  • Start supper around 5:00
  • Baths and bed time around 7:00-8:00

I try to keep up with housework throughout the day, doing something different each day of the week to keep the house in order.  But I'm not the best housekeeper, I'd rather cook, create recipes and play with my kids.

What about you?  Does a routine work for you?

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

The Daily Grind: I Have A Self-Wiper!

My daughter, Haylei, and her second cousin "B" are about 9 months apart in age, "B" being the eldest.  When Haylei would enter a new milestone, I'd call my cousin to see how she handled the same milestone when her daughter went through it.  Sometimes the advice would work perfectly, and sometimes it didn't.  Usually when the advice didn't work, it was because of Haylei's personality.  She can be very headstrong and stubborn (hmm, not sure where she gets that from?!)  But nonetheless, my philosophy is to try everything to see what works.

So when the topic of potty training came up, I had tried to prepare myself by reading lots of information in books, magazine and online.  I had "interviewed" several friends who have already gone through it finding out when to start, when to buy "pretty panties", when to buy "pull-ups", what kind of training potty to purchase, what kind of mattress protection should we invest in.  And I thought I was pretty prepared.

Momma had lots of good advice too.  She suggested introducing the potty when Haylei started walking.  Remember, Momma came from the days when you didn't buy disposable diapers, you used cloth diapers.  So the sooner you can get the kids out of the diapers, the sooner you would be free from shaking poo from the diaper into the toilet.  In fact, I was an early walker.  I started walking at eight months old.  And Momma had me potty training soon thereafter.  By the time I was a year old, I was using the potty.

Haylei was a late walker.  She started walking on her own when she was fourteen months old.  I purchased a Baby Bjorn potty seat and started letting her sit on the potty just before bath time every night.  Sometimes she would tinkle and sometimes she wouldn't.  When she tinkled in the potty, I rewarded her with a chocolate M&M.  My purpose was to introduce her to the concept of what the potty was for.  I figured she would eventually understand and use it on her own.

But first, I wanted to "help" her along.  I got a potty book for girls, bought some pretty panties and more chocolate M&M's.  Come first thing one Monday morning, I was ready to get started.  I gave her lots of juice and every 30 minutes we would head to the potty and sit while we read the potty book.  Whether it was her stubborn streak or not, she would not tinkle in the potty.  So we would leave the bathroom and go back to doing our morning routine.  Next thing I knew, she was standing in the chair squealing because she had tinkled in her panties, down her legs and puddled in the chair.  I took her immediately to the potty chair and we sat and read the book.  And nothing.  We changed our panties and started over.  We repeated this series of events four more times and I was done.  I called my long time friend, Abi, and asked her when I should stop.  She laughed and said, she would have stopped after the first tinkle in the panties and to begin again the next week.  So that's what I did.  But Haylei wasn't ready.  Then I got pregnant with Hunter and honestly did not feel like doing much of anything, much less potty training.  I spoke to Haylei's pediatrician and she suggested waiting until after Hunter was born to begin again with the training. We continued to use the potty before bath time and Haylei was getting very good at it.  I moved the potty from the bathroom into the bedroom hallway for easy access and to remove the temptation of playing in the big potty.
 
When Hunter arrived, potty training was the last thing on my mind.  Out of the blue, two weeks after Hunter's birth, Haylei squealed with delight as she tinkled in the potty all by herself!  I was completely shocked.  I took this as my cue to start potty training again.  So that week she went diaper free during the day, but wore a diaper at night.  After the first night, her diaper was a little wet.  But to my surprise, the second night's diaper was as dry as could be.  She had no accidents during the day either.  After the fourth night of a dry diaper, I risked letting her go to bed without a diaper, only pretty panties.  She woke up and completely dry, no accidents!  By Friday she had not only been tinkling in the potty but had been poo-ing in the potty and she was not going back to diapers.  We were diaper free!

Granted we have had our setbacks over the past year.  She has only had one accident in the bed and thankfully it was a brief wetting.  I had given her some medicine before bedtime and she woke up crying with a tinkle in the bed.  I had a protective pad on the mattress so it didn't get wet.  Like I had mentioned at the start, Haylei is very strong-willed.  I still remind her when to go potty.  She gets very busy and sidetracked and forgets to potty.  She has tinkling accidents more often than not.  I'm not sure if this has to do with a kidney problem she was born with (more about that later on) or a preschooler control issue, but we are taking it day by day.  While potty training has been an on-going training, definitely not something overnight, self-wiping has been the easier task of the two.  It seemed like a natural switch in Haylei's brain flipped on, and she wanted to do it all by herself!  I made it more pleasant by purchasing some flushable wipes.  She loves these but I won't be purchasing anymore after we run out.  We'll just transition to regular toilet paper when the time comes.

This has been a learning experience for sure.  I learned my child has a mind of her own, literally.  When she is ready, she'll do it, despite the fact when I'm ready.  Potty training is like any other kind of training we do for our children.  It's a training that is on-going.  It's not something that will happen overnight.

The only recommendations I would offer through my own experience is to invest in a good potty.  I love our Baby Bjorn potty chair.

We also travel out of town a good bit, so we invested in what we call a "travel potty".  It's a little Baby Bjorn potty seat that we keep in the van.  I keep a roll of paper towels, wipes and plastic bags in the back of the van.  This might not work for you but this works for me an my family.

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Wednesday, February 17, 2010

The Daily Grind: Boys vs. Girls

At first, when I was pregnant with my second child, I wanted another girl.  They could share a room, share clothes, always have a best friend.  

Then I found out we were having a son.  I was very nervous.  After all, I'm a girl.  How do I care for little boy parts?!?  Thankfully, God gave us the instinct to care for our little bundles of joy regardless of their sex. (And we have wonderful nurses who teach us what we need to know to care for them!)

It's truly amazing the natural differences between boys and girls.  I'm not talking about physical differences.  I'm talking about their personalities, their likes and dislikes, what makes them happy.  The Bible reminds us that in a fear-inspiring way we are wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14).  I couldn't agree more.

Almost as soon as Hunter was old enough to crawl around, he was fascinated with wheels and cars.  His favorite toys are match-box cars, trucks, plastic cars, the wheels on the stroller and he loves his "Cow".  Haylei, on the other hand, was, and still is, completely girly.  She loves her babies and having tea parties.  Dressing up in "princess" dresses, painting her fingernails and applying lipstick, haphazardly of course!
We visited my Momma today and I was struck by the marked differences in girls and boys.  Haylei was delicately playing with her plastic dollhouse and all the little dainty play-things that go inside.  And here comes Hunter...barreling in like a "bull in a china shop" or we could call him a "moose in a dollhouse".  It's comical really.  Hunter sat behind the dollhouse, sticking his gigantic foot through the door while Haylei was conducting a tea party on the other side.  Later he toddled around and proceeded to sit on the second floor of the dollhouse.  Granted, it did look like a little seat.  But he weighs a remarkable 30 pounds for his 20 months of age.  Thankfully, the dollhouse withstood the barrage of this destructible boy.  

Haylei loves to help me cook, bake and even clean.  Hunter likes to eat and make messes.  Maybe it's still his age.  I'm hoping he'll want to help out when he gets older.  Until then, our house is the most "baby-proofed" home in the neighborhood.  It might be because Hunter has broken both lamps in the living room.  Or it might be because he learned how to climb on the end-tables (which have been removed from the living room to the garage) and roll across the couch and start again.  My boy is very rambuctious but I've heard from my friends that this is not the case with all boys.  In fact, their daughters are the "wild-child" and their sons are the meek ones.

Hunter might be the wild one in our family, but he is also the sweetest, most lovable little baby boy.  Sadly, he's growing before my very eyes.  He'll be two years old in June.  It's hard to believe.  My mother-in-law is often heard telling the grand-kids she is going to put a brick on their heads to keep them from growing.  Where's that brick?

In the meantime, I'm loving the beautiful differences in each of my children.  I'm glad I have a son and a daughter.  I couldn't imagine my life any differently.  

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Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Kitchen Organization II

Remember last week when I started organizing my kitchen drawers?  My whole week has been off kilter since I didn't go grocery shopping on Sunday.  Everything I was going to do Sunday, I did Monday.  Everything I had planned to do Monday, I did on Tuesday.  So I'm playing catch-up today!

Remember the hardware drawer?

How could you forget right?

I cleaned the drawer completely out and put everything on the counter:

I only put necessary things back in, but it still looked messy:

So we took a trip to Walmart and picked up some drawer organizers:

Doesn't it looks so great?!

I felt really good about it when it was done.  I didn't feel sick to my stomach so I guess I'm getting used to organizing!  I also found $2.19 worth of coins in the drawer!

Next week, my kitchen utensil drawer:

oh boy...

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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

The Daily Grind: Future Clothing Purchases

Most of my kid's clothing come second hand through friends or purchases at Goodwill, Thrift Stores, Consignment Stores or even eBay.  Recently,  I took the kids to the library and remembered it was the 1st day of the month.  And that means $1 Days at my favorite consignment store.  So I whipped the car into the parking lot and was pleasantly surprised to find there were a lot of items leftover.  I was able to get Haylei a pair of brown corduroy pants and a pink ribbed turtleneck.  But I really racked up for Hunter.  I got him 3 hoodie sweat jackets, a pair of black corduroy pants, and navy blue sweater with snowflakes.  I got all 7 pieces for $7.49 (including tax).  Two of the hoodie sweatshirts were sized 4 and the sweater was size 3, but I know Hunter will grow into them eventually. 

When I was pregnant with my daughter, I read in a magazine that listed what sort of items should be included in your new baby's layette.  How many onesies, how many sleepers, how many socks, ...etc.  So I was thinking (I know that is very dangerous!) I should have some sort of system when purchasing clothing for the kids.  Most of the time I'm buying larger sized clothing for next season or next year, and it would be nice to know if I am purchasing too much of one item or too little of another.  This happened last year with Haylei's pajamas.  Somehow, I didn't buy her any size 4 pajamas.  I don't know what happened, but she had none.  So I scoured eBay and found a Lot of 4 Pajamas for $5.00.  Thankfully I snagged them but I don't like to put myself in a position like that.  So this is what I was thinking:  having a list of items a child needs each season and being able to mark off an article of clothing when it has been purchased.  That might be a little OCD for some folks, but I think this is going to work out great for us.  Each child already has a large plastic storage bin in their closet with the next season's clothing stored in it.  So I'll put this list in the bin and mark off when necessary.  

Here's what I came up with, let me know if you think I should add something:

Haylei:
4 dressy dresses
4 service dresses
8-10 pairs of panties
8-10 pairs of socks
white tights
black tights
brown shoes
black shoes
white shoes
sneakers
sandals
4 pairs of shorts/capris
4 pairs of jeans
4 long sleeved shirts
4 short sleeved shirts
1 winter coat
2 lightweight jackets with hoods
2 lightweight sweaters
4 pairs of pajamas (see I almost forgot them!)
1 or 2 swimsuits (thanks Laura!!!)
winter hat, scarf, mittens

Hunter:
4 pairs of slacks/khaki pants
2 button up oxford dress shirts
4 dressy suits with dress shirts, pants & vests
8-10 pairs of socks
black shoes
sneakers
sandals
4 pairs of shorts
4 pairs of jeans
4 long sleeved shirts
4 short sleeved shirts
1 winter coat
2 lightweight jackets with hoods
4 pairs of pajamas
1 or 2 pairs swim trunks
winter hat, scarf and mittens

This looks reasonable to me.  My Momma says my kids have too many clothes anyway, so maybe keeping track of my puchases will rein that in.  

And I just thought of something, less clothing means less laundry -- yeah me!!!


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"The Daily Grind" are posts referring to my career as wife, mother, bookkeeper, seamstress, chauffeur, teacher, baker & cook and whatever else life throws my way. (Proverbs 31)

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Tuesday, February 2, 2010

The Daily Grind: I am a Hoarder...In the Kitchen!

Laura at I'm An Organizing Junkie is hosting a 28-Day Organizing Challenge.  While I know I need to be more organized, I also know my limitations.  I am a terrible hoarder.  I think I might have learned this from Momma.  She was raised by her Grandparents and they were born and raised during the Depression when a family did NOT throw ANYTHING away.  During that time period, families kept everything from jars to flour sacks.  Jars were used for canning and preserves, flour sacks were sewn into dresses and shirts.  So when my mother was raised in my Great-Grandparent's house, she learned to keep everything.  And when she married and started her family, she taught us to keep everything.  I don't even think it was something done intentionally.  In fact, I don't remember Momma saying not to throw things away.  She just kept everything and I in turn, kept everything.  As we know, children learn by example. 

I have a terrible time throwing things away.  Whereas my husband doesn't have a problem throwing anything away.  One time I wanted to declutter my kitchen and was going to get rid of a picture I didn't want anymore, but I couldn't bear to part with it.  So I took it down off the wall and placed it on the edge of the counter.  It stayed there for about 6 months!  (No, I'm not joking.  Kevin can totally vouch for me on that one!)  When I cleaned and wiped down the counters, I always moved it and put it back.  Finally, one day when I was cleaning the counters, I was ready to part with it.  I placed it in a bag in the garage and took the whole bag to Goodwill.  When I think about the picture, I still feel a little tug in my stomach.  It's sort of a nauseous feeling.  But I am happy it's gone.  I just hope someone else likes it as much as I did.  

So back to the kitchen organization.  I know there is no way I can do a 28 day organization in one room.  I would probably be physically ill for a month.  But I know I need to get on the ball and get my drawers in order.  

Check out the silverware drawer:

Yes, it's that bad.

Look what was UNDER the silverware holder:

Yeah, I know.  How did I keep all that junk in there?  

Well, you can see all the Pampered Chef receipts.  The consultants tell you to put them under your silverware holder so you know where they are.  But I'm sure they didn't mean to keep them under there for 10 years! 





Look how clean it is!  You wouldn't believe all the stuff I threw in the trash.  While it didn't feel good to throw it away, I know it will be a good thing.

And I only put back necessary items.  The silverware holder, plastic toddler spoons, wooden skewers (which I use to test my Bundt cakes), plastic serving spoons (because they can't fit in the other drawer, yes I know.  I'll work on it soon!), wooden rolling pin.  Look, you can see the bottom of the drawer!  Wow!

This works for me and I know it might not work for everyone else.  But that's okay.  That's what makes us who we are :)

My plan is to organize 4 of my kitchen drawers over the next 4 Mondays.  This is my first, but look what's next:

The hardware/junk drawer:
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Wednesday, January 27, 2010

The Daily Grind: Old Enough for Chores?

Last week, Haylei asked me for a quarter.  At first, I reached for my wallet to get a quarter.  Then I stopped and thought, "Do I want her to think that money grows on trees and that it's okay to get handouts, to ask for something and she automatically receives it."  I want her to realize a little effort is involved.  So we had a "little talk" about Daddy working to get paid.  And how that money helps pay for our house, food, clothing and toys (yes, I have to break it down for an almost-four-year-old).  Then we talked about how she can help me around the house.  While she loves to dust, clean windows, hold the dustpan and such things, picking up her room is a completely different matter.

Normally, I'd be the one to clean up her room.  I could be in her room for two hours picking up dress-up clothes, hairbows, and shoes; organizing puzzles, books and toys into their places.  I'd feel a sense of satisfaction when I'd leave her room neat and clean.  But that feeling of satisfaction soon melted into disappointment.  The storm would hit.  The tornado named Haylei would destroy the room and it would look like I had never touched it.  You can imagine how I felt - like I had wasted my time.

Well, I had had enough.  I decided to hold an experiment to see if she would get tired of living in a pig-sty and clean up her room on her own.  It was hard because my momma would come over and I'd hear, "you need to pick up Haylei's room".  Or worse yet, she'd go in and pick up Haylei's room.  I even spoke to a friend about the problem and she suggested shutting the door.  Just shutting the door on the mess and everything looked better.  She was so right! (Thanks Leah!)

Then it happened!

Out of the blue, I was reading a story to Hunter while sitting on Haylei's bed, and out of the corner of my eye Haylei was on the floor picking up books and placing them on her bookshelf.  I didn't say anything at first, maybe it was out of shock or pure amazement, I'm not sure which.  Next she picked up her dress-up clothes and put them in her wicker box in the corner.  After that, she picked up the dirty clothes and took them to the laundry door (we don't have a laundry room).  I was so happy and so proud.  She said, "Mommy, look!  I cleaned my room!"  I told her , "Mommy is so proud of you!  It makes my heart happy to see you clean up your room all by yourself without Mommy asking you."  Then I had her follow me to my bag and I handed over a quarter for her to put into her piggy bank.

We both learned a lesson.  I learned being patient can yield unexpected results.  I also learned that while I felt like I was wasting my time picking up her room only to have it destroyed a few hours later, Haylei was learning how to clean up her room.  And Haylei learned the fruits of her labor yields rewards.  I'm not sure if she felt satisfaction from cleaning her room but the gigantic smile plastered on her face meant something.   

I'm not sure if we'll continue to offer an "allowance" for helping around the house, but right now this works for us. 

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